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REPLAY: Make Connection Your Default Condition

Here's the replay of Friday's Human Hour keynote, in which I read the rough draft of a chapter about how to make connection your default condition from my forthcoming book.

This month’s video quality is an improvement over last month: in February you couldn’t see me at all, but this month you can see half of me.

We’ll figure it out all the way in April!

This is what we cover in this recording:

  • The game we’ve all been unconsciously playing for as long as we can remember, which accidentally creates separateness and suffering

  • Why and how children generate their own sense of shame in even the most loving environments

  • The one thing we all have in common which can become a source of deep connection

  • How to transform that thing into an engine for connection

  • An exercise for harnessing it at the most pivotal moments in your relationships


If you attended the Q&A, conversation, and coaching after the reading, I’d love to continue the discussion with you in the comments. If you missed the live event but have questions of your own, I’d love to hear those in the comments as well.

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