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REPLAY: What to Do When Your Defenses Kick In

Here's the replay of Friday's Human Hour keynote. Find out the one thing to do when your defenses kick in that will change the trajectory of your relationships and your life.

This is what we covered:

  • The intersection of openheartedness and relational boundaries

  • A definition of openheartedness and clarification of who can benefit from the openhearted journey

  • The blind spot that resulted in Will Smith slapping Chris Rock

  • Why you can’t defeat your defenses but you can delay them long enough to direct them

  • The shift in energy that is required in order to sustainably address our defensiveness

  • How the fight-or-flight response maps onto our conflict behaviors

  • A deeper understanding of the nine most common relationship defenses

  • How to welcome your defenses instead of wielding them

Enjoy the replay!

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